Guidance Counselling Department
He aha te mea nui o tea ao? / What is the most important thing in the world?
He tangata, he tangata, he tangata. / It is people, it is people, it is people.
Our Otahuhu College Guidance Counsellors, Mary Castles (HOD) and Clare Norton, are professionally trained and work according to the New Zealand Association of Counsellors (NZAC) Code of Ethic which means that confidentiality is maintained unless there is an imminent risk to safety.
Mary and Clare work collaboratively, with their primary focus aimed at engaging therapeutically with students so that they are able to academically work and achieve to their optimum level and every person at our college feels safe, secure and connected to each other. Mary and Clare are passionate about developing our Guidance whare as a place of safety and shelter that everyone can access openly.
The guiding principles in all interactions with our school community are reflected in Mary and Clare:
- Being genuinely engaged in the therapeutic relationship
- Having unconditional positive regard for our young people
- Feeling empathy for the young person
- Clearly communicating these attitudes
Through the counselling process students are encouraged to explore their difficulties and concerns, and are supported to find new solutions or ways of coping.
People might seek counselling for a variety of reasons:
- Difficulties at home or school
- Low self esteem
- Grief and loss
- To make better informed decisions
- Support for problem solving and finding resolutions
- Managing anger
- Stress management
Whatever your concern a counsellor will be happy to assist you.
A counsellor may also:
- See you on your own or with support people
- Give you information
- Provide referrals for specific help
- Act on your behalf with your consent
- Facilitate mediation to resolve conflict
Referrals are welcome from students, from parents and from staff. An appointment system is used to enable Counsellors to give our students uninterrupted sessions. Counsellors offer individual and group counselling, mediation and Restorative Justice facilitation and advocacy. They share a commitment of working towards a socially healthy and emotionally safe school. Parents can contact Mary by telephone, 9634025 or Clare 9634027. Alternatively they can email Mary firstname.lastname@example.org or Clare email@example.com.
Students can drop in to P12 Guidance Department at the start of the day (between 8.00 and 8.30) or at interval or lunchtime to make an appointment with a counsellor. Self referral forms are available by the door – just fill out the form and post it in the locked letterbox. You can ask a friend, parent, teacher, whanau leader or any staff member to make a referral for you. You can also refer a friend if you are worried about them. Just fill in the referral form with their name on it and post it in the letterbox. A large number of students attend counselling each week for a wide range of issues. Students of all academic levels, and from all ethnicities and age groups are represented.
If appropriate, and with parental consent, students can be referred, free of charge, to Whirinaki or the Kari Centre (located in Greenlane Clinical Centre) for psychological support. This can be recommended when students face depression, anxiety, panic attacks or other mental health issues.
Student Led Initiatives in the Counselling Department
Counsellors and students run a number of programmes within our school which helps us to spread our message of supporting each other, stopping harassment, building respectful relationships and celebrating diversity. Our student Peace Ambassadors and Peer Mediators work closely with Guidance by role modelling our college ethos of using our words, our voices, to support, encourage and include one another. Regardless of race, religion, gender or sexuality we support, encourage and include everyone. Diversity Group meets with Mary and our external facilitator, Torranice, every fortnight and Peer Mediators work in our Guidance group room at lunchtimes to help resolve conflict between students. Peer Mediator referral forms are located by the letterbox.
Counselling Group Programmes
We have two proactive group programmes to support students. These are the Positive Pathways Programme and Travellers Programme. (links below)
The internet has some useful information about counselling / mental health issues. Here are some good sites that students or caregivers may wish to look at: